Choosing a wedding band felt like such a huge decision! I wanted something that truly complemented my engagement ring, not something that just looked…okay. It was more complicated than I initially thought, and I went through a lot of trial and error to find the perfect match. So, I'm sharing my experience to help others on the same journey.
My biggest problem was the fit. I really didn't want a big gap between my engagement ring and wedding band. I tried a straight band, but it just didn't sit flush against my engagement ring. It looked a little awkward, to be honest. I knew I needed to explore other options. I started by researching different band shapes and styles, looking for something that would create a seamless look.
I considered curved bands, since I knew many people have success with them. They definitely work well for some engagement rings, but I wasn't sure it was the right aesthetic for me. I was looking for something a little different, something that still felt modern and elegant.
That's when I stumbled upon the idea of a thin, beveled band. It was a subtle change, but it made all the difference! It still had some shape to it, allowing it to sit closer to my engagement ring without a huge gap. I really liked the idea of something delicate and understated. I wanted my engagement ring to still be the star of the show, but I also wanted a wedding band that could hold its own.
I also started thinking about other unconventional options, like a V-shaped or curved band. I saw some beautiful examples, but ultimately, I wasn't sure if they were right for my personal style. I wanted something that felt timeless and classic, but with a modern twist.
Another piece of advice I received was to embrace the gap! Some people actually love the look of a little space between the rings. It can create a unique and interesting aesthetic. I even considered not wearing a band at all! My engagement ring is beautiful on its own, and I wondered if adding a band would just detract from its beauty.
Ultimately, I decided that I did want a wedding band. It felt like an important symbol of our commitment, and I wanted to wear it every day. So, the search continued!
Then, I had a different idea: what if I got two bands? I loved the look of a ring gap, especially when there was pave (small diamonds) on the engagement ring. So, I considered getting an open band in yellow gold and then pairing it with a diamond eternity band. The contrast of the metals and the sparkle of the diamonds would be stunning!
Another option was to do an open band with some kind of gemstone and then pair it with a plain band. This would add a pop of color and personality to my ring stack. I spent hours online, browsing different styles and combinations. It was a fun process, but also a little overwhelming!
After trying on countless rings and exploring different styles, I finally found the perfect wedding band. It was a thin, beveled band in white gold, with just a hint of sparkle. It sat perfectly against my engagement ring, creating a seamless and elegant look. I absolutely loved it!
Here are a few tips I learned along the way: